I was told by my MIL (Mother in love) that a divorce is like a death.  So that made me start thinking about that, and I found it to be true.  With any death, there is a grieving process.  This process is different for everybody. Imagine going through a long illness, an...

Over the past few days, I've been reflecting on some decisions I made, and how my life has turned out up to this point.  I've wondered if I made the right choices, and if I could have done more to change my outcome.  I've wondered if I should have fought harder to keep...

Today I feel the need to share what motivated me to get my college degree as an adult learner.  It was my first job working in Healthcare IT, and I was working as a Senior Computer Operator at a small hospital in Delaware.  I worked with two other ladies who were my Di...

Because of the cold weather, nothing much is going on in my Crazy Single Life, so this particular snippet is about something that happened to me in my past.

Everyone who knows anything about me, knows I've had the same best friend since 1985.  We used to refer to oursel...

When little girls grow up, we go through many stages.  We go from wanting to do and be exactly like our Mothers, to trying to do everything the exact opposite of our Mothers.  I believe that we come full circle as we become adults and realize that as hard as we've trie...

So let me tell you about my puppy son.  His name is Ace and he's a 10 pound Shih-Tzu & Yorkie mix.  I got him right after I had decided to file for divorce.  This was a low period in my life, because it was the end of something that I expected to last for the rest of m...

When I decided to move out of the home I shared with my ex, I decided that I would start all over and not take any furniture or decorations to my new place.  I picked out furniture that I liked but didn't pick out any wall hangings or drapes or anything like that.  So...

Greetings! In one of my earlier posts, I mentioned that I had met a nice man and we began dating right as my divorce was wrapping up.  Now, I want to share how we met.

My ex and I were still living in the same house although we were going through the divorce. I sle...

So....for years I have always said that when you see women with different hairstyles and different hair color all the time, it's an indication that something is going on inside.  We may not always express ourselves verbally, but sometimes we go to great lengths to be c...

Towards the end of my divorce decree, I met a nice single guy and we started dating exclusively.  I will share the details of how we met in a later post.  But I decided after a few months that a relationship was not what I needed at this point in my life.  I had been m...